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He who finds himself not left behind calms to observe and discover means to breakthrough, welcomes failure and carries the responsibility on own shoulders. He knows that from those lessons whatever to come in the future is made. When failure put you behind, allow it to. It will work with you in relatively until you hit your knick. I want you to know that those who may seem to be ahead are not ahead either. They are just exempted from walking walking your path.

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A man who emerged successful after a good count of failures has no single failure to count as his biggest. What he measures is not failure itself; the money that was lost, the humiliation he felt, etc. To him what to count and measure are lessons learnt, and lessons can’t be quantified. The impact each failure can make is greater if one who fails chooses to stay at it and never give up. It is greater when there is more failure allowed to be ahead of it before success materialises.

I do not want to leave room for “Had I done this, it would have been different”. I try to do the undone even if there is nothing left to be done. I try and try again until it comes out alright. If anyone is to conclude that I am talented by taking a look at the success that I have achieved he will not be wrong. I am talented. Everyone else is. It is only that people suppress talents when they give up.

Fail. Don’t measure the size of the failure and scare yourself big with it. Treat each failure and the humiliation it will give you the same. Tolerate it and absorb lessons. People are just willing to help you see how big you failed and how late have been to get yourself quit. No one, even your mother, can help you see that success is that perfect apple you will find after you dig in a bag of rotten apples.

You will fail until pursuing it over and over becomes a senseless habit. You don’t have to give up. You have to believe that you will make it. If you don’t believe in yourself, you can only make it easier for those around you to prove to you that not giving up is a silly move. Fail! Do believe in yourself. Don’t give up.

Have you not been told that people fear what they do not understand? Don’t you understand and know how success is going to be possible after these counts of failures you have seen in your life? Are you scared? You have to believe that success is up ahead and that giving up is not part of what you do. Once you do so no fear will ever take you down.

Just knowing that you will be successful is a major step toward success. When proof from the current happenings is not enough to let you know that you will be successful, believing that you will make it is enough to chase away your fears. By believing you are conditioning yourself not only to know but to feel by the heart what it will be. What the heart believes, the mind thinks, and the body acts.

Of course, there is nothing more scary than failure. It is normal to feel your heart rattle when you fail and to notice your tears rolling. But it is important to get over this quickly, recover, learn and keep pursuing. You have to believe that failure is not the end yet. It is not the end. In the end, there is something that is not scary. You have to believe you will meet success at the end and hold on to it firmly. Fail! Tell yourself it is not the end yet. It is time to learn. Success is up ahead.

Make your love for success exceed your fear of failure so much that it becomes senseless for you to fail completely. This is what those who achieved success in a backdrop full of obstacles have done. This is all of it. They longed to achieve more than they were scared of losing. The likes of Mandela even forget to classify each loss in their lives as a loss. Nelson Mandela said, “I never lose. I either win or learn”. This is the mindset that made some love not only success but failure that is littered in each path to success. Failure is, in fact, the path to success. Yes, it is.

If success is dessert after a dish. Failure is an essential ingredient in the main dish. You will never like how the dessert will taste without some more failures in it. Welcome more failures. You certainly have to.