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It is not someone’s fault that you have a dream and a vision that he can’t understand and can not be there to help you grow. But it is your problem that you have it. So learn to understand the complexities of it and help yourself to grow it. You dream so that you open your eyes and see your specific sunshine. You do not dream so that everyone around you quickly understands the essence of your awkward dream and helps you to realise it. When you dream and build a vision, you have an opportunity to lose a lot of people who are closer to you.

But it is your problem that you have it. Solve the problem!” The statement points to the need to overcome the troubles you face thanks to having a dream and trying to fulfil the said dream. Owning a problem puts you into a situation where you must take the lead in solving and solving it even when you are left alone. You are advised against blaming others when you fail.

Have you ever wondered why rich relatives won’t help you with capital? You have to understand this: To walk together, keeping watch of each other, we have to understand each other. Most people won’t understand your story until your story becomes the main story they can’t live without. This has nothing to do with who these people are to you. Even your parents may act against you they love you but they do not understand your vision. As a visionary, your qualities must be the source of your success.

There is a moment when what you call a dream is to some, including your loved ones, a danger that seeks to cause harm to you and them. This is an important phase. It is when the dream is fully mature, and all that’s left is a pain to be endured until you see the light. Of course, that important phase is hard, many give up when facing it and many give up their support to those facing it. The conclusion after it all is simple. It is not anyone’s fault that you have a dream to fulfil.

It’s not important to be heard and understood. It’s important to aim higher and achieve your wishes. You have to find means to achieve your wishes when all you believe in is against you thanks to the complexity of your vision. They will catch up, they will soon or later find out that you have a vision. Avoid prolonged frustration. Frustration is that which prevents you from doing what you do and must do passionately.

Your not being understood by people closer to you serves to:

1. Invite a leadership skill. Showing that you have the way, failing countless times and not giving up when no one seems to care about your vision is proof that you are a good leader. A good leader cannot fail small numbers, that is himself or herself.
2. Expose you to failure. Failure is a major source of lessons should you give it a chance.
3. Expose you to vulnerabilities, strengthen and change for the better your vision should you stay resilient.

In the upcoming article, you will be reminded that deeper understanding is like creativity itself. It is how you trick your brains to achieve it. It is like cracking a code you haven’t before. People around you need that creativity to be able to apprehend the unbelievable things you intend to come up with. When they fail at being that creative it means that they will not understand you until it is too late to help you out. This is why you have to figure out a way that does not involve their support.

Alternatively, stay silent about your plans and conceal your vision from those who resist it. You then figure out the ways you can convert the support they give you on things that are not important in your life into support for things that you were dreaming about.