Socien's Blog

What is to be the one who beats a boxer who is unbeaten for several years? It doesn’t only make you a winner of a fight but the legend of the fight. Such a win speak volumes of what you have done behind the scenes that spectators can’t see.

For such a victory to visit you, you must be ready to watch the level of hardness only getting higher. You will witness those who used to be by your side excuse themselves. This alone intensifies the fight should you choose not to give up. Conquerers did not start as emperors. They started as failures. The bigger the fight, the bigger the win.

If something is done with the belief that you are to achieve it, you will have done it differently in the end even when failing. So, tell me what is it going to be. You stay a loser or you wake up and fight. Because no one is going to be in your boxing gloves and fight for you. They can tell you what to do. But you are the only one who knows what to do and does what you must do.

You are the only person in this world who calls yourself, “Me!” you are unique. Wake up and live up to this. Please do. Don’t hesitate. You are here to be you. No one is going to take your place. Go on. Just be here for what you are here for, and remember the bigger the fight the bigger the likely win to come out of it.

The best time to stand your ground is when there is no ground visible to the observer other than you. Some lose because they are completely knocked down. Please, do not lose because you chose to run away whilst you were on your feet. For this, I give you the exemplary life of a firefighter.

The fire fighter

The fire’s encroachment is the only of the fire’s behaviours known to the firefighter. Each fire the firefighter quenches or pulls a rescue from is as good as an actual training and learning ground. It is a very hostile ground where an action taken or not taken is a step towards victory or a total loss. You are not going a chance to learn and fail separately. You are not going to be given a chance to go without failure entirely. But you will be given room to put your best fight.

During each second more damage can be caused. The fire to a firefighter is an opponent that cannot have any mercy. A firefighter is a man of resources and speed, and the success of his or her work relies on how and when resources including himself or herself are brought to the fire scene. The firefighter cannot carry the fire to where his resources are. Or locate the fire in front of a hydrant.

In this life, you are like a firefighter you don’t have any powers on how and when to meet and face a certain situation. But the powers to fight it and fail and fight it and win are vested in you. As a fighter whose identity is to fight you simply must be ready to fight.

The fire on the other hand is as ever ready to prove that what a firefighter calls resources, even when in abundance at his camp, are a scarcity at the fire point. Very often in life, you will face a situation that needs to be solved by resources you once had as opposed to resources you have. This is your path to knowing that you are never fully prepared. Fully prepared is an impossibility. You have to march into the battlefield aware of this. Be resourceful.

There is nothing to give you full immunity against trouble. You are a mere human. But you can fight for your way out of trouble. You are a fighter. Nothing and no one can change this. If patience is not enough, have some hope. Let it take time.

As a fighter, if you have every reason to fight for what you don’t have to fight for, don’t fight for it. Simply get it. There is no need to theorise and complicate your methods if what you intend to achieve has been achieved by some with easier methods.

To win a war you have to have some help. You do not have to bank it all at the power and strength you have. War creates leakages and drains your power. Invite your friends and before you can declare war on your enemy. The friends to invite in this particular situation are those who are fellow enemies to this particular enemy. Show these friends how they can benefit by joining you in the coming fight before you can mobilise them. Fight without sabotaging or going against your allies.

In short, the above serves to suggest that seeking help and making friends halfway through your struggles is not a good idea. It is also bad idea to try and make friends because you have achieved.

The choice is yours, too. Here is my final advice. Fight! Fight your way to the top. But if you are ever to choose between fighting and love in a situation rare. Fall to the side that says love. Either way, you are a winner.