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Patience is waiting for a certain result and outcome without loss of enthusiasm on the laying out and pursuit of goals that you intend to get to success through. Uncertainty, pain, suffering and failure are what you go patience walks you through. It is hard to be patient and stay patient. How can anyone favour uncertainty over certainty? Patience is a true sign of strength. That strength smashes through obstacles and draws you closer to success.

Patience is paying the price of success through incessant pain when there are no signs of success coming. It is doing what you must as opposed to doing what you love. Patience is the power to let the passage of time decide in your favour. Patience is that which ensures that miracles happen after years of work when miracles are no longer worth being called miracles.

Patience is the emphasis on effort and improving on the effort you put in. Patience is a bug you can install on your system so that you forget that results are late. Patience is doing things that waste your time and exhaust your energy, failing until those things are done well to qualify to be called achievements.

Patience is listening to your inner voice and not giving up on what it says. It is what gives you higher chances of living up to your inner command rather than to what people will say.

Patience is an undefeated thirst to conquer. Patience seeks to make a difference and that difference is made without one who is patient noticing it. Patience does the unseen. It gives prime attention to improving the effort and not results. When effort is improved positive changes happen.

How and why patience matters?

Patience turns the constraints to success in your path into nothingness. It unlocks your potential so that you do not only deserve to succeed at the end but succeed. Patience exposes you to pain and suffering. In suffering, I believe, we attain purpose, one thing that is harder to attain elsewhere.

Patience makes it impossible to fail once; you fail countless times and still fail to give up. It is said that we learn through failures. Patience creates room for failures to happen without limit until you have unlimited lessons learned in your life. Patience creates room not only for failure but also the tolerance and welcoming of failure as a teacher in life.

Patience is the right choice that ranks above all right and good choices. It is the beginning of other life choices in life that matters. For example, failing and repeating exhaust and a thousand ways that won’t get you there. Once you know ways that won’t get you there it becomes easy to pick one that will get you there. Failing over and over without giving up is a choice that only the patient will make. Patience has a long list of products that success would want you to possess before you make it to success.

They say you should trust the process. It is hard to reach higher levels of commitment in life when in doubt. Patience ensures that you are fully invested and committed. Patience is trusting the process. You are not designed to give true love to a person you do not love no matter how kind you think you should be to that person. True love starts with trust. Patience is the true love you can give to your goals, dreams and vision. In a maze of impossibilities, it unlocks doors to possibilities.

The once constraints disappear or loosen up for your passage while you wait. Small things ranging from your lack of knowledge to the cruel environment outside disappear or loosen up to make your passage a reality. This is because patience is not just waiting outside while working for your way in. It is the best possible means of discovering the secret doors that can lead you inside.

You are entitled to observe and learn from what you experience and witness. Patience gives you the privilege to experience things that those without patience can’t experience. What you learn while going through what displeases and is avoided by most is what will set the difference between you and the average person.